@thekinghack
I just got done reading the entire thread, and I understand where your confusion is coming in. The reason why everyone stop helping you is because what you’re asking is illegal. In fact, we will be breaking major laws by just giving you the answer based on the grounds of conspiracy to commit a felony. The reason why everyone was helping you at first is because you never said your reason, and everyone had to assume you wanted to know for educational reasons.
In fact, you are breaking the law just by asking such thing.
Just because you are married, doesn’t mean the law starts seeing both of you as one (other than taxes and a few small other things). Ask yourself this, does the other go to jail if one of you kills someone.
Anyways, you will run into problems even if you used a cracker. Facebook has some stuff setup to prevent such thing from happening (a 2+ step). A monitor like wireshark also shouldn’t do jack for you because facebook is a https site. So I wouldn’t really waste your time in trying another approach other than working on the trust issues.
BTW, I think the mod needs to shut down this thread.